Yoni massage is a tantric sexual practice that involves massaging the vagina which in Sanskrit is yoni and loosely translates to sacred place. Vaginal massage gives you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can help people who usually get orgasms after one orgasm and achieve multiple orgasms and is especially useful for people with vaginas who never experience orgasms. It can also be very healing for those who have been sexually traumatized in their past because the approach and technique is about giving – love is appreciated and respected by the owner of the vagina.

How to massage Yoni:

• The scene is set

Start with an open mind and don’t judge yourself or your body as you should when exploring all new things. Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips and feet and keep your knees straight. Use your favorite massage oil to apply the clay to your liking. I prefer coconut oil because of its delicate taste and sensual aroma.

• Connect to your breath

Breathwork is an important part of any tantric sex practice. What we are going to use here is called Bliss Breath. Breathe into the back of your throat and listen to the whisper. Then blow out and make the sound again. Continue to take deep slow audible breaths that move into your body and take you out of your head and help spread the energy throughout your body. Not only do we want energy in your vagina but this type of deep breathing can help move this energy from the vagina to the rest of your body.

• Warm up

While clitoral stimulation is a great start to sex a body massage or a tantric chest massage is a great warm-up. The goal here is to achieve relaxation and gradually build excitement. Start with a little coconut oil on your belly and massage gently. The body part that is often overlooked is the stomach contains many nerve endings. Massage the ribs between the breasts and abdomen. If your body begins to respond move slowly before moving around your breasts. Don’t touch your nipples. If the persons body is more responsive start fiddling with the nipple alternating circles and light pinches and light medium and strong touches. Once your body is warmed up with breast massage and nipple stimulation its finally time to move. Among the main vaginal massage techniques.